Are you wondering, Is the grass greener in my neighbors yard? Is my lifeall that it should be? Is my life really all that bad?




 JUST THINK ABOUT IT....






Today like most days was  a challenge in and of itself. My 7 yr old has more homework than I remember having in first grade, and I have to ask my friends to help me help my son with his 1st grade homework! At this rate one of us is definitely getting a tutor!

 I watch Dr. Oz to see how to manage my out of control health, weight and life at 46 and I watch the Chew to get an idea of what the heck to cook other than the usual, sould food, chicken, pork chops, pot roast, and steak..

 It is definitely a struggle and it amazes me how after venting to a friend I found out we have similar life issues and she doesn't even have kids!! Wow and just think 100's of time a day I imagine what a carefree life i would have if I wasn't responsible for the life, education, happiness, health, education, growth and well being of my two boys.   Well now it seems thats not the problem, you can have the same issues i have without kids! Quality time for yourself in your relationship, maintaining a active love and sex life, and just putting yourself first.

 I must admit it did made me think of a few things that make it all worthwhile.  For instance, my autistic son senses when I'm stressed and unhappy and he'll come to me and give me lots of kisses(yeah those kisses fix me when I'm feeling broken sometimes).  It's cute too when the boys fight over who's gonna sit closest to  me while we watch movies. It truly make me feel appreciated.
So yes sometimes you need to swap stories with a friend to see the grass is not any greener in their yard, its just slightly different ,but pretty much the same....

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